I'm going to take it easy on the things I brought up in my letter to My slut. I think I am going to really concentrate on what she already enjoys. So it will be lot's of floggings, and still some caning. She is handling it better each time. A lot more of the crop, hot wax, and the Wartenberg wheel. We used the dildo some the other day, and I will be using it a lot more often. She will be doing a lot more oral on me, but without the pressure of letting me cum in her mouth. Maybe if I back off on it, it will just happen like she said it almost did before. I will ask her to do it so I can see her. She is doing a different position so I can't see her face, but I love to watch her suck me, so I want that to change.
Pretty much I am going to let things progress as they will for a bit and see what happens. If she starts back sliding again, I will bring it up again.
Thank you to everyone who offered suggestions throughout this time.