My son had his last baseball game of the season, and a friend of mine was having a house warming party, so we had quite a full day. My boy had a good game followed by some pizza with his team mates before we went to the party.
There we had some good barbeque and other foods. I had some good beer so My slut drove home. It was a very good day where we held hands and talked to each other, really talked to each other.
The boy made a friend riht away as soon as we got there, and spent the whole day playing with him, so he had a great time and the wife and I got to spend some quality time together.
Then we came home and we all watched a movie together. It's been a really long time since we did that.
All in all, it was a really good day, except for the end. I wanted to have sex, and she said she was too tired. Well, I guess I can't have it all. I think we are on the right track though. I hope you all are having a good weekend.
William
William: I am sorry to read it has been tough lately and this post is indicative of the fact that you keep trying hard to be positive and see the good, which is so vital, I believe.
ReplyDeleteI get the feeling you aren't as frustrated with your sexual life as you are with your day to day life - whether or not you interact well in the evenings, for example, and I would reiterate that even vanilla couples have little rituals that spell out their evenings - you pouring a glass of wine or she making you both coffee after dinner. It isn't remotely unusual for these things to happen and perhap (and it would be my suggestion) she asks permission to go to the bedroom of an evening. Do you think that is achievable?
My best wishes,
Vesta
this makes me smile widely William -it's so awesome!
ReplyDeleteBut can one be too tired for sex?? :P
So happy to hear that you are talking and enjoying each other!
ReplyDelete@Sweet girl, I never can be. My husband sometimes can be, though generally it's not "I'm too tired for sex," it's him falling asleep before anything happens. Poor thing.
Yeah I could never be too tired for sex, but she often is...Oh well, what are you going to do.
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I am unsatisfied with how far the submission part of our sex life has gone, and a few other things I have written of here. I think if we fix the vanilla part, it will help the rest of it.
Thank you all for your comments.
William
I'm curious if the two of you have ever tried sex in the spoons position? It's particularly nice when one or both partners are tired. If she could manage the effort to lift her top leg up and back over you, you could do all sorts of things to her without her expending any more effort at all.
ReplyDeletethats a good step in the right direction, im glad you had another good day. Take the other stuff really slow for now. She is still open to it from your last post...get the foundation right first and then go from there. I think you both need to learn to trust one another again and this is a real step in the right direction
ReplyDeleteIm happy for you William
kiwi x
Next time make a strong coffee for her and present it with 2 aspirins. When she asks what it is fore you can tell her the coffee is for her tiredness and the aspirins are for her headache. When she declines both you got her!!
ReplyDeleteGreat idea Elder, unfortunately she doesn't drink coffee. A soda would work though...laughs!!!
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William-- I hope that you can have more days like this with your family. The next time we all see each other, your son and our daughter may actually be able to play together. =)
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