She keeps giving me little signs that her mind set is changing. I don't think she even realizes she is doing it either. The last couple days she has felt like she is coming down with a cold. Her immune system sucks and spening a lot of time at our son's school doesn't help. So tonight she comes over to me as I sat at my desk to give me a hug while I was making dinner. I was sitting in the office chair and she stood in front of me and hugged me. After apologizing for not feeling good, she started to walk away, stopped after a couple steps and stuck her ass out just a bit for me to swat her. I gave her a hard swat over her jeans, but told her it is supposed to be her bare ass. She smiled and said I know and went into the bedroom. She used to complain every time I would do that, now she invites it. A very good sign.
It may be just a small step. but very noticable if you know what to look for. She has also been much better about remembering not to wear underwear to bed. I showed her the marks still visible on the inside of my forearm from the cane, and told her she is next. She grinned and said she knows, and that she hopes she feels better soon. Me too! She is going to get some stripes next time. I get hard just thinking about it. Does that make me such a bad guy???