Me and My slut had a conversation about her brattiness yesterday. She agreed that she was bratty and will have to pay for it, but she asked me if she wasn't doing good though...
I stopped for a moment and realized that yes, she was in fact doing quite well considering where she was coming from. I guess I sometimes lose sight of the progress she is making. She has made good progress in learning to submit and take the erotic pain I want to give her. I made a point of telling her that last night. That I was impressed that she can handle hot wax and floggings. There are a lot of women out there who wouldn't try to make this transition for their husband no matter how much they love them.
I need to make sure I compliment her when she does good as well as correcting her when she makes mistakes. I guess it's easy for us Doms to lose sight of that sometimes. I will endeavor to not let that happen again.
I know it might sound a little silly coming from a fifty year old woman, but a genuinely pleased "good girl" from him just makes me feel like glowing.
ReplyDeleteI agree with KellyRed, there's nothing like hearing "good girl".
ReplyDeleteI could not agree more. Hearing those two words from my Master makes me feel amazing, and more importantly, makes me want to be able to hear them more often. :)
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