Saturday, April 5, 2014


I was asked what happened that caused this upheaval in our relationship. I won't say, as it's a private matter between my slave and I. I will just say that we didn't communicate our thoughts completely. We were always talking, but apparently not truly communicating as we thought we were. We took a hard, painful look at ourselves andrealized what we had done and where we were heading, and it wasn't pretty. Fortunately we caught it in time, even though we had to go through a very ugly period where we both made some very big mistakes to realize it.

To fix it, I stepped back and looked at myself with a critical eye and started over.I have taken complete control of her in every way possible. something I hadn't truly done before. I also went back to researching ways to become a better Master...I am now back in school as it were and it's made a huge difference in our lives.

I'll continue to write about the things that we experience as they happen though....

Thank you to everyone who still reads my blog, and I hope to get a lot of you back, and maybe some new ones too...


1 comment:

  1. I hope all is well with your relationship. It's wonderful that you are able to look at yourself to see what needs improvement. Many Dom's in this position think they are above that. I've enjoyed your blog and hope you continue to write about your journey.