tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post8273018560557260805..comments2023-10-30T01:19:55.831-07:00Comments on The training of My sexy slave: A bit of a rough day...Williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01978679146746236376noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-7361765056367294942011-04-04T18:11:58.933-07:002011-04-04T18:11:58.933-07:00I wasn't angry at her for not wanting to taste...I wasn't angry at her for not wanting to taste my cum, I got angry with her apathetic attitude. Refusal I can deal with. She knows I won't force her to do anything, but apathy about me is unacceptable. She knows this, but gets lazy about it sometimes. My small outbursts actually are like a wake up to her. I don't yell at her or act out, I just walk away. She always apologizes afterwards for making me feel that way and it usually re-focuses her to realize she has upset me.<br />I will never be offended by an honest attempt to help me. You said nothing offensive in the least.<br /><br />Thank you for your concern and interest.<br /><br />WilliamWilliamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01978679146746236376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-49123034462109209792011-04-04T13:44:37.645-07:002011-04-04T13:44:37.645-07:00William--you must start with the agreement. Has y...William--you must start with the agreement. Has your wife committed to doing everything you wish? Have you discussed limits, if there are any? You need to have a very clear understanding--both of you--about what you are doing.<br /><br />If you do and it includes cum sucking, you can get your way but you still have to be loving about it She is making a huge sacrifice for you, and although she is your slut and therefore is supposed to sacrifice for you, you still need to treat her with respect and love. She is not an object. <br /><br />One thing that works very well for me is that while I ask my lizard to do what I would expect her to consider outrageous things, I am always extremely polite and a complete, though firm, gentleman with her. I never get angry. I give her advance notice. I will e-mail, for example, "My dearest sweetest lizard: On Saturday you will suck my cock until I cum in your throat. I love you with all my heart, my precious darling." Then I will remind her a few times during the week, and ask her to respond by test or e-mail. For example, "Don't forget, my angel, on Saturday you are to swallow my cum. Please be ready for me." Then on Friday or so, I will send her something like this:<br /><br />"I" told you Saturday you will be swallowing my cum. Are you ready, my naughty little slut?"<br /><br />If she does not acknowledge, I will keep pushing until she does, just to make her buy in.<br /><br />Then when Saturday comes, we will start our lovemaking. I may rub her back, and I will kiss her gently all over. At some point I will simply say, "it's time, my darling, for you to swallow my cum like a good girl."<br /><br />If things aren't right, I will put it off. Usually they work out, rarely she is not feeling well or something so we skip and do it later. But I always go back to it.<br /><br />It sounds like you got angry, but it's not really something you should be angry about it. she may be your lovely slut, but she is still human, and you need to have an agreement. If you have the agreement, and it is truly voluntary, ask her why she is agreeing. Later when she backs out you can remind her of her reasons. I always also tell my lizard I love the way she sucks my cock (because I do), so she gets lots and lots of sincere praise. It amazes me how far she will go if I am just polite, loving, sincere and firm.<br /><br />Good luck! I hope you do not find any of my comments offensive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com