tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post5003829213406384262..comments2023-10-30T01:19:55.831-07:00Comments on The training of My sexy slave: We are still talking...Williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01978679146746236376noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-59104780862106133342011-10-09T19:03:07.815-07:002011-10-09T19:03:07.815-07:00such good progress and very positive attitude from...such good progress and very positive attitude from your wife - i am so happy - i hope it keeps up William. Well done on your patience. A day off togetehr to explore and experiment both vanilla and ttwd is a really good idea :) try and do that that sometime soon with her.kiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-53384419968641703532011-10-08T17:10:03.232-07:002011-10-08T17:10:03.232-07:00This post makes me smile, William.This post makes me smile, William.Ezraiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01634859135158980586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-66301094969549315122011-10-07T16:42:44.941-07:002011-10-07T16:42:44.941-07:00This sounds like very good progress, particularly ...This sounds like very good progress, particularly since she seems to unequivocally want to continue. You've made a lot of progress in a short period of time. It took me many more years to get to the point where you are with your wife. I see K's point, when we have strong needs, it's awfully hard to be patient. But it sounds like it may come with time for you. Especially since she likes your stories!maui girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17493492596306169981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-88011762758764592592011-10-07T11:53:33.025-07:002011-10-07T11:53:33.025-07:00William - so glad to hear that you two are communi...William - so glad to hear that you two are communicating about all of this. I will be waiting and watching to see how things unfold from here. Best of luck! :)zeldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00019455370664410657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-91517742091254946162011-10-07T07:28:42.990-07:002011-10-07T07:28:42.990-07:00Well it does feel positive to me that she was adam...Well it does feel positive to me that she was adamant about not stopping the kinky things you're doing. That was encouraging to read. <br /><br />You're doing great, and I know you want so much more. But imagine how it would have felt to hear she didn't want any of it. Hang in there sweetie.Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09739434395082532346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-41718764283915246962011-10-07T02:03:32.468-07:002011-10-07T02:03:32.468-07:00Bondage, can be a very difficult thing to get your...Bondage, can be a very difficult thing to get your head around especially if you've experienced an abusive past or actions. Even though she may trust you implicitly, it isn't anything about the here and now.<br /><br />There are a couple of things that you can do . . .begin down the route of "mental bondage" placing her into a position and literally telling her to stay there, no restraints. (Not as easy as it may sound!)<br /><br />Another thing, is to gently ease into it. Invest in some silk scarves and tie them perhaps round something on the bed or even just around her wrists and ankles. But allow the material to be loose around her wrists/feet, it enables her to have a more gentle introduction, the softness of the material, but also the loose bindings will help her begin to get used to the feelings and to know that she is safe, she also has the knowledge that she can get out at any time. Over time, tighten how fast they are bound, and build it up slowly. All the time talking to her.<br /><br />I had a sub William, who was frightened of being blindfolded due to something that had happened to him as a child. In some ways he wanted to experience it, but the first time we did (at his request) he panicked and cried like a small child. From this point we started using something that he could quite clearly see through, but to get used to the feeling and the sensation of being blindfolded. Over time, it was a case of using thicker materials, taking steps back if it was hard for him.<br /><br />There are most certainly ways to do such things, but when something is such a big deal for the person receiving, its important not to "force" because that can have a serious or detrimental affect to their well being and emotional health.<br /><br />And while you may have a better mind set and a plan, it seems that perhaps she wants the "kink" within the bedroom, and at a time or in a way, that only works for her. I guess it all depends on whether that is enough for you . . .as a sadist, I am unsure that it is.<br /><br />Good luck as always<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725100298325586663.post-4317310585081063862011-10-06T22:46:07.167-07:002011-10-06T22:46:07.167-07:00I'm happy you two are finding your bearings to...I'm happy you two are finding your bearings <i>together!</i><br />Mind set and plan, two important parts to reach the goal -just remember it's the journey that counts!<br />Hope you'll have a good weekend together :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06962358426978378748noreply@blogger.com